Falling in love is Easy,BUT!

Hey Guys,
Just wanted to share my latest article on Goarticles.com., Entitled "Falling in Love is Easy, But getting Over a Breakup?" Hope you like it. If not, let me know. Leave a post!
Thanks
Matt

Falling in love is easy.

Love at first sight, you swept me of my feet, I fell so hard for you,"your in love! Yes, we have all seen it, felt it, yearned for it. But the fax remain the same, falling in love is easy. There's even a song titled, "It's So Easy to Fall in Love."It's a great feeling isn't it. When you fall in love it's like floating on a cloud. Everything smells better, tastes better. It's so much harder to get made about things. Falling in love is one of life's grand pleasures. But as the rules go: For every action there is an equal and opposite re-action.

Breaking up.

Let's face it, its a loss, its a pain that can be unbearable for some. And for many, cause depression, lack of apatite, unable to sleep or sleep all the time. Over eating, the unwillingness to do even the simplest tasks. For every high there is a low. Hey, that's life, right! Without the lows would we really enjoy the highs? If there were nothing to risk for the highs, would it be worth it? Would the highs really be high?

Getting over the "Break up"

It's human nature to want the pain to go away. Nobody likes to feel the pain of a break up. Lets talk about how to get over a break up. The first step is understanding that what you feel is natural, Its what you do with it that is the important thing. You don't want to talk to your ex. This will only prolong your pain and push your ex farther away. If you want to have any kind of relationship with your ex in the future, you want to avoid crying, begging and pleading for them to come back. You will only show them that you are weak and immature. And trying to make them feel guilty is only going to make them avoid you more. No, Now is the time for self reflection. A time to try to grow. A time to make yourself a better person. Take a good hard, honest look at yourself and see if there is something you might improve upon. If there is a book you have been meaning to read or a class you always wanted to take, maybe some kind of hobby that has always interested you. Now is the time to go for it.

The better you!

Take the time to work on you. This technique has two up front benefits; A)It helps take your mind off of the break up. which speeds up the healing process. B) Helps regain your confidence. Completing a goal or finishing a task you started in the past, no matter how small, Gives you a reason to feel good about yourself. And the more reasons we have to feel good about ourselves increases the chance that we "will" feel good about ourselves. This has a snowball effect, you feel good, your confidence goes up. And when your confidence goes up people notice, you become more attracktive, more fun and easier to like. Who knows you my even win back your ex. If you still want them.

A better understanding.

I hope that this has helped in some way. It always feels good to fall in love and it sucks to go though a break up. So take that pain and make it work for you. Find a way to grow from it. You'll be a better person in the end and a better lover!

Thanks for reading and good luck.

MClosson

If you have read my articles on ezine, thank you! Although I have written about relationship from my point of view and what has work for me in the past. These idea's and plans are not all that new or unique. What I have found is a man with a good simple plan in helping the newly broken up to get back on track. His name is T 'dub Jackson. If you haven't looked at his video's located on my site I suggest that you do. T' dub puts together a plan that is simple to fallow, and he cares. Because he has been there and has helped thousands with his "Magic to Making up" book and video's.
If you want the love of your life back? You ow it to yourself to put together a plan that will work. Mr. Jackson shows you how" Step by Step." He even writes you a hand written note that use can use to get the ball rolling on the right foot.
Look at the video's then go ahead and get the tools you need to feel the "Magic of Making up!"
Thanks for reading.
Matt

Can you ever regain trust?

A friend of mine informed me the other day that his wife of 6 years confessed to having an affair.
Of course his initial re-action has that he was done and he wanted a divorce.
After talking, crying and fighting for most of the night, they cam to the conclusion that they love each other and want to renew there commitment to one another.
It turns out that his Hobie of bowling once a week turned into a 4 night a week obsession. This left his wife at home alone to deal with there kids, the house and everything else that goes with being married with children.
So not having her needs met she develop a close friendship with a co-worker, which lead to a physical attraction. After sleeping with the other man. His wife felt such remorse and regret that she had to tell her husband what happen and how unhappy she was. All she wanted was to get back to what they were when they met.
This major event actually had the opposite effect on there relationship..A shock to the heart of the marriage if you will.
Don't get me wrong I don't believe that infidelity is ever an answer to marriage woos. But this story is a testament to love and how strong a bond to someone pull you though even the toughest of times.
What I hope you get from this is, treat your relationship with your lover as if it is the most expensive vase in the world and you have to carry it to the top of a mountain for all the world to see. Protect and Cherish the ones you love and don't take them for granted.
Thanks for reading.
Matt

Though life there are ups and downs,bumps and bruises. The ones we share them with create ties that can never be broken!