Thursday, December 10, 2009

How to Get Back an Ex Girlfriend

How to Get Back an Ex Girlfriend by Matt

If you are thinking of ways to get back an ex girl friend. You may be trying to figure out where things went wrong or what you could have done differently. You might even be thinking of writing an apology letter or showing other signs of good will to help mend your relationship with an ex girlfriend.

In many cases this is not a good idea. For the simple fact that women are emotional when it comes to fail relationships and have a hard time knowing exactly what led to the breakup. They may not even know what they are feeling and why. Its just not a good idea to waste energy trying to figure out what went wrong.

The best thing for you to do when you are trying to get back an ex girlfriend is to try and forget about her for now. Put your energy into something else. Find something to distract you from women in general. Meet new friends and have some fun! Hey, maybe bone up on some new ways to seduce women and meet people.

Give yourself a reasonable amount of time to make some changes in your life. Taking time away from your ex will work wonders in healing wounds for both of you.

The benefits of strategies like this one, is that it will enable you to make subtle changes in your life. And how you look at relationship. After a few months you should have a better idea of how you plan on getting an ex girlfriend back.

Do you still want to make it work? Or are you ready to let her go? If at this time you are still wanting to make it work, now would be a good time to see how she if feeling about you.

Here is your chance to be a little more direct when trying to get your ex back. You need to have a play though. Do not think for a second that going to her and begging for her to come back to you is going to work. Now is not the time to be emotional.

The better plan would be to be cool with your ex. If you have taken the time away from your ex as I suggested, she is going to miss you too. Play a little hard to get, but give her the idea that you still want her but on your terms. Give her a chance to start to rethink things.

Now, if getting back with an ex girlfriend is meant to be, this is the time it will become the most apparent. Try not to read into things too much, play it cool while keeping your distance a bit. Let her come to you and take it slow.

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