Falling in love is Easy,BUT!

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Just wanted to share my latest article on Goarticles.com., Entitled "Falling in Love is Easy, But getting Over a Breakup?" Hope you like it. If not, let me know. Leave a post!
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Matt

Falling in love is easy.

Love at first sight, you swept me of my feet, I fell so hard for you,"your in love! Yes, we have all seen it, felt it, yearned for it. But the fax remain the same, falling in love is easy. There's even a song titled, "It's So Easy to Fall in Love."It's a great feeling isn't it. When you fall in love it's like floating on a cloud. Everything smells better, tastes better. It's so much harder to get made about things. Falling in love is one of life's grand pleasures. But as the rules go: For every action there is an equal and opposite re-action.

Breaking up.

Let's face it, its a loss, its a pain that can be unbearable for some. And for many, cause depression, lack of apatite, unable to sleep or sleep all the time. Over eating, the unwillingness to do even the simplest tasks. For every high there is a low. Hey, that's life, right! Without the lows would we really enjoy the highs? If there were nothing to risk for the highs, would it be worth it? Would the highs really be high?

Getting over the "Break up"

It's human nature to want the pain to go away. Nobody likes to feel the pain of a break up. Lets talk about how to get over a break up. The first step is understanding that what you feel is natural, Its what you do with it that is the important thing. You don't want to talk to your ex. This will only prolong your pain and push your ex farther away. If you want to have any kind of relationship with your ex in the future, you want to avoid crying, begging and pleading for them to come back. You will only show them that you are weak and immature. And trying to make them feel guilty is only going to make them avoid you more. No, Now is the time for self reflection. A time to try to grow. A time to make yourself a better person. Take a good hard, honest look at yourself and see if there is something you might improve upon. If there is a book you have been meaning to read or a class you always wanted to take, maybe some kind of hobby that has always interested you. Now is the time to go for it.

The better you!

Take the time to work on you. This technique has two up front benefits; A)It helps take your mind off of the break up. which speeds up the healing process. B) Helps regain your confidence. Completing a goal or finishing a task you started in the past, no matter how small, Gives you a reason to feel good about yourself. And the more reasons we have to feel good about ourselves increases the chance that we "will" feel good about ourselves. This has a snowball effect, you feel good, your confidence goes up. And when your confidence goes up people notice, you become more attracktive, more fun and easier to like. Who knows you my even win back your ex. If you still want them.

A better understanding.

I hope that this has helped in some way. It always feels good to fall in love and it sucks to go though a break up. So take that pain and make it work for you. Find a way to grow from it. You'll be a better person in the end and a better lover!

Thanks for reading and good luck.

MClosson