Monday, August 24, 2009

Hey Guys just wanted to check in and share with you my latest article from ezine.com.

She Dumped me, Want Her Back!

O.k. she dumped you and you want her back. The first thing you want to do is get your emotions under control. Women in general don't care for an insecure man who are clingy and needy. So, I if you are still calling her, e-mailing or text her, STOP! Don't worry. If you feel you truly had a connection with your girlfriend you can get it back. The last thing you want to do push her even further away. So break all communication with her for now.

Believe me, I know all too well what you are going though. I have made the same mistakes. Right now she is probably the only thing you can think about. You may not be able to sleep, eat or find joy in anything. That's o.k. its normal, but that's not going to get here back.

Now is the time to think about yourself. Now is the time to work on you. If you want to have any chance of getting her back you have to turn in-word. Take some time to think of what you can do to improve yourself not only for you but for her too. This will also give you something to focus on instead of her. Get in the gym, read a book or take a class even volunteer some where. Anything constructive to get your mind pointed in the wright direction.

What this does is help you mend your heart, build confidence.(woman love men who are confident(but not cocky) . Its a win,win for you. Working on yourself makes you a better person and is only going to help when you do see your ex again.

By this time you are thinking. "This is all well and good but, she dumped me and I want her back!"

If you follow what I have out lined here. The tide will begin to shift. Believe me, woman have ways of keeping tabs on you. All she be hearing is how well you are doing and she will want to know more. Hay she cared about at one time and probably still does.

So, when she does come back around you will be a more well rounded person and even more attractive then when she left you. It may seen hard to do right now. You can do it! If you want her back like I know you do, this the best course of action.

Thank you for reading my article. I'm pulling for you!

M. Closson

Though life there are ups and downs, bumps and bruises. The ones we share them with, create ties that can never be broken! Learn to med the ties.